Why Video Dating Works


Communicating with someone in person, or falling for them based on visual mannerisms and creating that spark is hard to replicate online, but we believe that’s about to change. Our video dating feature provides you with a safe way of getting to know potential dates face-to-face before meeting in person.


Video dating means that you can see the person in real time, see how they act, how they laugh and how they look compared to their profile photo. Using our video date feature can help you make better judgments and decisions based on what you see.


The introduction part of getting to know someone through ‘personality’ or ‘spark’ is usually created online but can be limited to photos, emails or messages. Although you can receive instant responses you can’t get a feel for what the persona you’re talking to is like until meeting them in person. Our video date feature can speed up the online dating process and enhance your online experience.


Imagine viewing someone’s profile, their photos, and interests, but you can’t date them safely without arranging to meet in person first? Imagine you like someone’s profile, but they live too far away to date face-to-face on a regular basis? We have solutions for those situations, our video date feature helps you date safely and in a more relaxed environment than ever before, your own home.

Why is video dating such a good idea and what problems can it solve?

Fake Accounts


False Photos



Broken Hearts

How does video dating help members enjoy a safer dating experience?



Safe Dating





We believe that honesty is most important in any new relationship, so we have developed the necessary tools to ensure you can enjoy a transparent and safe online dating experience. There will always be problems that affect members using online dating sites, but there will be fewer mistakes and less disappointment if you can see, hear and interact with your date before meeting in person. If you’re video dating please adhere to our video date rules and terms of use policy


Video dating brings together the two essential elements for safe dating online:


The online spark
 personality Рtastes Рwords Рlooks Рcommunication
Observation (video date)
body language – mannerisms – voice – expressions – laughter – looks

All the information and advice on findmeyou.com is subject to personal tastes or experiences.
There is other dating advice available from many other sources, the advice on Findmeyou.com is given to protect and help our customers when searching for love. Although we can’t be responsible for our member’s dishonesty, we do advise against it. Findmeyou.com is an honest based dating service, we hope to provide our users with an honest online dating adventure and experience. This does not mean our advice will guarantee our customers dating success but will give them the tools and best opportunity for finding love.